I've seen SO many women so insecure about their appearance. Whether it be their weight, height, looks, or anything else. It seems there's ALWAYS something wrong with them. They never just stop to look at themselves and say "I'm fine the way I am." Myself included sometimes. So I took the time to create this in hopes that at least SOMEONE reads it and understands where I'm coming from.
- First off, Heavy girls, You are NOT Ugly because of your weight. You are beautiful and more than likely stronger than the skinniest women on earth. Don't listen to people who say "You should exercise every day to feel good about yourself". What a load of crap. You should exercise if you WANT to exercise. Your body is under YOUR control and YOU make the rules, not everyone else in the world. Just because someone thinks you're "fat" doesn't make it true. You are you, and EVERYONE should respect that.
- Second, Skinny girls. There IS such a thing as TOO SKINNY. Don't look in the mirror when you weigh less than 100 lbs and say "Oh my god I'm so fat." No. You are NOT fat. And even if you were, what would it matter? Stop trying to make yourself paper thin like the "Models" in the world. Trust me, Heavy women are often more beautiful because they are more healthy! Being TOO skinny only makes you sick...not to mention seeing all of your ribs is...not attractive. However, You are you...nobody can tell you you CAN'T be that skinny.
- "Ugly girls" you're next. Take it from me, as one of those "ugly" girls, you are often BETTER than other women in the world. You are NOT UGLY. You shouldn't listen to those tall blonde bitches that have the nerve to call you ugly. You're beautiful BECAUSE YOU'RE YOU. This can't be stressed enough. EVERYONE is beautiful, unless they have an ugly attitude, and that includes you! Nobody should have the right to tell you you aren't beautiful. You are you, you're beautiful and perfect the way you are!
- "Beautiful girls" That's right. It's your turn. If you're one of those beautiful girls that goes around thinking you're better than others because you're beautiful...let me just make one thing clear. You're not. You're ugly because your attitude is ugly. You have an ugly heart, that's worse than an "ugly" face. You are not any more beautiful than the rest of the women in the world. Now then, if you're one of those beautiful girls that doesn't act like that, good. You ARE beautiful, just like everyone else in the world. You have a beautiful heart, as long as you don't put down other women. Again, you are you, and that's the way you should be!
- Now this is for EVERY woman on the planet. Stop putting yourself down when you look in the mirror. For one thing, it's not going to change who you are. Your body is perfectly fine the way it is. If you somehow choose to change it, that's your opinion and idea. It should NOT be influenced by others.
- I see so many girls trash talking others. Stop. There's a reason why everyone was made the way they are. They ARE beautiful, despite what bullies are saying. Bullies are the ugly ones. Again, having an ugly heart and attitude is worse than having a so called "ugly" face.
- Girls, you have got to stop complaining and denying when someone calls you "beautiful". Listen to them for fuck's sake. They see the whole you, they don't dwell on what you consider your faults. They see the whole image, they see the beauty you have. Don't just think they're being nice to you because they're a nice person. They truly mean what they're saying. You ARE beautiful!
I understand the feelings of insecurity but sometimes you have to push that aside and look at your strong points. Stop dwelling on those little flaws like big noses or birth marks, those aren't important. Focus on what makes you you, what makes you the perfect human being you are. You're strong, you're beautiful, and you're talented. Don't let insecurity ruin the you that's underneath!
Love yourself, love who you are, and love those that see past the minor flaws you see in yourself every day.
You're perfect.
